SlimShady wrote:Stick with it. I had the same problem, then some time later, the girl admitted that she was attracted to me but she was affraid of her own feelings and tried really hard to hide it from me. Also, keep in mind that other girls who shares similar qualities with your target may became interested in you.
Although I don't approve of magick to attract a specific person (not for moral reasons but because I feel it's doomed to fail) slim is correct about women. We don't jump at every man we are attracted to. Sluts do that, not good women.
I was like what slim described with my husband. In fact, the first time he asked me out, I declined. It took me a year before I gave into my feelings for him. It wasn't fear though, it was my standards. I refused to date a stranger.
So what you are looking for now is assurance. That one thing she needs to be persuaded to act on her feelings needs to be triggered. For me it was another woman. I watched him get hurt by her and it made me want to reach out. Maybe that's why the other girls are coming around?